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Tora Moon's avatar

So very well said!

This idea that we, creators and spiritual guides, should be giving our gifts away for free is so pervasive. I'd like to add it's also a poverty mentality on the part of the person who wants our sacred gifts without giving a fair exchange. I see it so often they want a healing or tarot reading, without paying for it or giving something else in exchange, because somehow spiritual people don't have bills to pay.

As a fiction writer, I've stopped doing freebies of my stories. Too often, people stuff their e-readers with books they'll never read, meanwhile, I'm trying to pay the cover designer or editor, hoping these freebie seekers will eventually buy my books.

Aja's avatar

This is so well said, and the exact right amount of fire. I actually paid my own coach to work on this with me -- to build my confidence in asking for PROPER payment for what I do because I'd internalized the story of not deserving payment for the care and spiritual work I do. We've been trained to devalue ourselves when we're "just starting out," even though just starting out for many of us comes after years of learning, practicing, and perfecting. Social media deepened our awful societal practice of putting in lots of unpaid effort just for "exposure." I see you and your words are a powerful call for all of us. Thank you.

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